Today is the day I start to evaluate and rebuild my life. Some background about me first. Over the last few years, I have noticed that I do not seem completely happy with my life’s direction. I have been more than lucky to have had the experiences that I have but I still feel that I am not taking 100% of the opportunities presented to me. This is going to be a bit boring, but I feel I need to write this down as a record for myself in the future. My plan is for the next 8 months is to try to achieve all my goals that I am about to list. It may seem impossible and silly, but I am tired of letting people tell me what I cannot do. I have let people influence my choices and that above all else has been my biggest regret. Whether I make it or not, I will work towards these 5 goals.
In high school I was and am still overweight, but that did not stop me from taking part in sports and other activities. I did water polo and had a wonderful time for those 4 years. Friends were not that big of a problem either although, I still feel like if I went back I would change a lot. This is what I want to prevent. Five years from now, if I look back at my life, I do not want to wish that there were things I wanted to change about it. This brings to my first goal, losing weight. So many times I feel like my weight has been a factor in some of my unhappiness. This needs to change now. Never again will I let this be a limitation in my future endeavors.
I have been thinking about what I am supposed to do with my life and it sometimes just bothers me to the point where I feel anxiety. Not knowing what career path is right or if I am working on a good degree is sometimes overwhelming. I feel restless because deep down I know I just want to travel and explore the world. I have taken many trips and I have met so many people along the way. Though I may never see them again, I know that I want to continue traveling and experiencing these new cultures. I would say the largest expenditure I have every year goes towards some sort of travel. Knowing that my future will revolve around traveling is the reason I have set my second goal; learn Spanish and Chinese. My plan is to buy a motorcycle and ride around South America for a few months. Chinese is going to be valuable in my future and will also fit into my travel plans of going to Taiwan. This goal alone seems impossible to do in 8 months, but I do have some background which I hope will make it easier for me to learn these languages.
To also work towards my future goal of traveling, I would like to pick up a hobby that will help me capture the memories. My third goal is to learn how to use Photoshop and learn Photography. I want to be able to take photos of different things I see and places I visit. Sometimes during my trips I use my standard point and shoot camera, but the images I get when I come home do not seem to have the same effect. Hopefully, with this new hobby I will be able to capture the moment in a way that I can relive the experience when I look at the photos.
On my last trip which happened to be in China, I met a man who has been traveling for years. He told me that he worked hard and did his own investments which gave him the freedom to travel. His lifestyle was so inspiring and I felt like I could have talked to him forever. What really struck me the most is that I needed to learn more about investing. I needed to be able to not only make money, but make my money work for me. My fourth goal is to learn more about investing and keeping my money safe, but growing. I do accounting and business in university so I hope to build on my knowledge.
Lastly, I used to read quite a bit. I felt like books were an escape from reality and gave me the imagination and ideas that I use daily. I want to go back to this time. For the next 8 months, my fifth goal is to read 8 books. I will pick 8 random books from all genres and read them in the 8 months. They will be books I have never read before. I can’t prove that I have never read them but you’ll just have to take my word on it.
Having goals is all fine and dandy, but unless you have a plan then you’ll never know if you have reached your goals. Here are the parameters I will use to evaluate my goals over the next 8 months.
Goal 1 (Lose weight)
- C25K (Couch to 5Km)
- Swim 100 yards in under 55 seconds
- Run an 8 minute mile
- End weight 80kg
Goal 2 (Learning Languages)
- Complete Rosetta Stone (Chinese 1-3, and Spanish 1-5)
- Complete Pimselur for both languages
- Learn 3000 vocabulary words for each language
- Watch basic television shows in foreign languages
Goal 3 (Learn Photography)
- Master my PowerShot SX 20 IS
- Go out once a week to take photos
- Finish all my Photoshop tutorials
- Collect 35 photos for a “Portfolio”
Goal 4 (Learn Investing)
- Work towards a better Portfolio
- Save money towards Roth IRA (Max out for the year)
- 5 Stock picks
- Create 5 models for the stocks
- Research 5 stocks in Report form
Goal 5 (Read more books)
- Finish 8 Books by the end of December
- Write mini book report on each book
- The Five People You Meet in Heaven by Mitch Albom
- The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo (Millennium #1) by Stieg Larsson, Reg Keeland
- The Kite Runner by Khaled Hosseini
- The Book Thief by Markus Zusak
- The Thirteenth Tale by Diane Setterfield
- The Graveyard Book by Neil Gaiman
- East of Eden by John Steinbeck
- The Sun Also Rises by Ernest Hemingway
- The Brief Wondrous Life of Oscar Wao by Junot Diaz
With my goals laid out, I hope to achieve these tasks by December 31, 2013. Before the New Year, I want to have completed everything. As a side note and future reminder to myself, I have bet a friend $20 through Paypal that I will be 80kg before the New Year. The purpose of my blog is twofold. I want a journal to document my thoughts and progress, and a place where I have to show accountability for my actions. With all this being said, here we go.